Editorial Review:Product Description:As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: 'What do I do?' Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.
Welcome to the world of
She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay -- simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.
Fun, informative, and easy to read,
She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual.
She Comes First exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, 'You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how.'
Amazon.com Review:'When it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man's native tongue,' writes clinical sexologist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. in
She Comes First, a straightforward, intimate, and exuberant guide to cunnilingus. Kerner first explored 'the oral caress' as a way of compensating for his 'sexual inadequacies,' and quickly learned that women not only welcomed but often preferred 'the way of the tongue,' reaching orgasm more consistently than through intercourse. Kerner educates readers about the clitoris, 'the powerhouse of pleasure,' with 18 parts and 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and describes female sexual response from 'foreplay' through 'coreplay' to 'moreplay.' A large part of the book is a graphic, detailed primer on 'mouth music,' including best positions, step-by-step techniques (illustrated), and tips for tongue and fingers. How long should this last? Until the woman has an orgasm or many, says Kerner, and 'melts blissfully before your eyes.' 'The vast majority of women complain about guys who don't like to do it, don't know how to do it, or simply don't do it nearly enough,' writes Kerner. This book will change that. Women: Buy it for your partner!
--Joan Price
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Some women much prefer standard penetrative lovemaking
Women differ in what they like, just as men do. Some of what other women are alleged to enjoy I definitely wouldn't. I personally find standard missionary position lovemaking much much more satisfying than oral sex. For me, the climax is much more satisfying and intense with penetration. It really bugs me when I read statements saying that women prefer oral sex or manual stimulation. That is so bogus. Sure, it's true for some women but sure as hell not for me. On the other hand this book could be good for a guy that is with a girl that does like oral sex more, but even then she might prefer standard lovemaking if the guy learned how to do that better. That would be the more useful book for a guy. This one seems like it's more about giving up trying to give her pleasure in penetrative lovemaking. It takes some women years to learn to enjoy that but boy is it worth it when you get the hang of it.
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She comes first...
..then it's your turn. And so this is the premise of this very enlightning book on how to pleasure a woman. The author (Kerner) really gives good advice and isn't coy about it, either. I liked the straightforwardness language and have found this book to be useful in the bedroom. Likewise, I also enjoyed The Master's Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Perform Successful Oral Sex and Provide the Highest Degree of Pleasure Possible and highly recommend it as well.
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Good read
everyone should read this book. Men and women!!!! I have learned so much from this book and the author is so funny too. GOOD READ!!!!
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Oh ladies buy the set!!!! You won't be let down.
This is a great set of books. He is a great author I have now bought everyone he's wrote. After 14 years of marraige I was sure we had done it all omg I was wrong talk about pleasure after he read this. lol go for it you will not waste your money.
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Wow! She Does Come First!
My partner is the original John Wayne - to the core. And for him to read a "how to" book on anything just isn't going to happen. Well, he doesn't have a lot of experience in the art of pleasing a woman...you know, cowboys just get on and ride! Well, somehow, he heard about this book and has it ever made a difference. A difference in everything - our level of intimacy, our happiness, everything we do...we are now closer than ever before...and we're both in our 60's!
He first tried some of the techniques without telling me about the book. Well, it was wonderfully obvious to me that something had changed and for the better.
This past weekend, we sat together in bed and he showed me the book and we read exerpts that he had marked together. How wonderful is that! We've laughed and played and we have loved...and after all these years, I am now coming first - and for the first time! How glorious is that!
Thank you, Dr.Kerner!She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
